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Before you light up

Kindling is for adults only. You need to be 18 or older to continue.

✦ kindling

You think you know
what you're into.

You probably don't. Most people have never actually mapped their desire — what turns them on, what kills it, and where they land on the spectrum. This does that. In about 5 minutes.

✦ $9.99 · One time · Disappears when you close the tab
start here

What's your situation?

Pick one — it shapes what you see at the end.

🔒 Private. No account. Gone when you close the tab.
what you actually find out

Three things most people
have never figured out about themselves.

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    Your Erotic Blueprint
    Are you Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, or a Shapeshifter? Real framework. Real therapists use it. Your result will probably make you go "oh, that explains a lot."
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    What's killing your desire (and what isn't)
    Science calls it your gas and brake. You'll find out exactly why you're sometimes just... not feeling it — even when you want to want it.
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    Where you land on the power spectrum
    Dominant. Submissive. Switch. Or none of the above. No judgment. Most people have a lean they've never said out loud.
want to take it further?
couples add-on · $14.99

Skip the awkward conversation entirely.

After your quiz, send your partner a private link. They take it on their own. You only see what you both said yes to. Nothing gets revealed that wasn't mutual.

No accounts. No apps. Just a link that does the talking.

What your profile looks like

After your three tests you'll get a full breakdown like this — but yours.

sample profile · not yours
The Sensual Switch
Environment-first, brake-heavy, fluid on the power spectrum. You need the right conditions — and when you have them, you're all in.
Sensual Blueprint High Brake Sensitivity Switch
sample breakdown
Erotic Blueprint
Sensual
Gas Sensitivity
Moderate
Brake Sensitivity
High
Power Spectrum
Switch
your kindling profile
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your breakdown
what this means for you

your boundary map

Mark your comfort zone.

🟢 yes   🟡 open to it   🔴 not for me

This stays private until you choose to share it.

Go deeper on the power dynamic. 🖤

You got a taste in the quiz. The full Power & Trust add-on maps your dominance, submission, and switching patterns in detail — including what actually makes it feel safe vs exciting for you.

Power & Trust Deep Dive $4.99

Want to see if you match?

Send your partner a private link. They take their own quiz solo. You see what overlaps — no forced conversations, no awkward reveals.

Couples overlap report $14.99
Their results stay private from you until they choose to share